Frequently Asked Questions

What is Lifestyles?

 Founded in 1969 as a forum for group discussions on all aspects of

 relationships and sexuality, Lifestyles Playcouples Club has

 flourished to become an integral part of (LSO, Ltd.). Today our

 organization also includes, The Lifestyles Organization (TLO)

 annual Lifestyles Convention, Lifestyles Productions (videos),

 Lifestyles Dance Parties, Lifestyles Tours & Travel, Desire Resort

 and ClubLifestyles.com Online Chat & personals. L.S.O. was founded

 with the belief in freedom of adult sexual expression, pleasure in

 social and intimate relationships, all adding to the joy of life.

 What is it going to be like?

These are privately held parties where real couples like yourselves

These are privately held parties where real couples like yourselves

 get together with other Playcouple Club members to meet in person,

 socialize, dance, and party, We want you to feel as if you are

 attending a friend's house where you can relax and indulge your

 fantasies. No pressure, no expectations, just a great place for the

 two of you to meet and play with others of like mind and similar

 interests.

 Will I have to get naked or do anything I don't want to do?

 NO, NO  You will not have to do anything you don't wish to. In all

 of our groups, No means NO  No one is required to participate in

 any activity they are not comfortable in. Understand this is simply

 a social group and as with any group of people, you will be

 attracted to some (or one) more than others will. An overall open

 and friendly attitude prevails however, and that makes it very easy

 to meet others. Unlike typical bars, where there are a lot of

 single guys competing for the women, we are an association of

 couples so the intense competition level disappears. What you will

 find is freedom to talk to anyone without the fear of commitment

 that something is expected of you. But also, the freedom to go with

 your feeling and toss out those inhibitions and enjoy getting to

 know other couples and exploring your fantasies.

 What about our privacy?

Membership in the club is kept strictly confidential.

 What is a Playcouple?

The notion of the Playcouple is a unique idea that addresses a

 leading cause of dissatisfaction among males and females today.

 While single individuals can count on any number of resources

 designed to introduce them to other single individuals.  Married

 couples however are assumed to be an island. That once you’ve taken

 your vows, you need never again seek outside sexual companionship

 or inspiration. Of course, this is not at all natural human

 behavior and can only result in an unnatural response. Subsequent

 divorce followed by marriage follow by divorce in a kind of serial

 monogamy is a common result. The Playcouple, by contrast,

 recognizes and appreciates normal desires in mates and encourages

 the full and enthusiastic expression of the same. Playcouples’ may

 or may not be Swingers. They may share sex with others or they may

 simply enjoy the frank and open display of adult sensual pleasure.

 Feeling good isn't bad and such stimulation can go a long way

 toward once again igniting the flames of passion a couple knew early in their relationship.

 What do we do?

 As we’ve said before, no one is required to participate in any

 activity they are not comfortable in. We do suggest that you and

 your mate communicate with each other at all times. Nothing is

 worse than a long drive home if one misunderstood the others

 intent. Never feel pressured into doing something because you were

 too embarrassed to talk to your spouse about your feelings. No one

 will think any less of you for making sure all are comfortable, we

 were all new at this once and remember what it was like.

 What should I wear?

Dress as sensual and sexy as you are comfortable with. Most parties

 have a theme that you can use if you wish but it is not a requirement.